Health

A disease is a pathological process in the organism, as a result of which undesirable changes occur in individual organs and tissues, and this causes unpleasant subjective feelings of pain, sometimes even death. Where does it come from? Why is it created at all? Why with the same diagnosis does one patient´s symptoms subside and disappear while another´s condition worsens? What is behind the healing of a person? What is behind their death? What is actually hidden behind diseases or their symptoms?

With the family constellation method, we look for a connection between the illness and the processes taking place in the family system (the family constellation method does not replace medical care.) Illnesses and their symptoms represent an attempt by the body or psyche to cope with the difficulties that come from the family system.

All organs diseases
Phobias
Allergies
Chronic diseases
Addictions

Danny came to the constellations with his girlfriend who was setting up a constellation. He was chosen for that constellation as a representative of a family member. Visibly shocked by what he was able to feel and what he was a part of, he asked me if he could set up the constellation for himself. Danny suffered from insomnia from an early age. In his own words, he was afraid to fall asleep, but he had no idea why. The pills were the only thing that could make him sleep and keep him asleep. When I asked about his family, he became sad. His mother died when he was young and his father was locked up in a mental hospital for most of his life.

In the constellation, it was revealed that Danny had taken on the role of his father´s guardian since his early childhood. Unconsciously, of course, but out of the enormous love that only a child can feel towards their parents. The father suffered from severe depression and had suicidal tendencies. If he was not in the hospital, he was at home isolated from the world. He was prescribed strong drugs but refused to take them, so nothing could ever be predicted in their household. From an early age, his mother taught Danny that he had to watch out for his father, so that he wouldn´t harm himself.

So he and his mother would alternate who would keep his father company while the other one rested for the time being. When Danny was 11, mom had a heart attack and Danny didn´t find her until the morning, because that evening he was watching over his father. Danny was taken from his father and raised by his grandmother. Danny did not allow himself to fall asleep because he was afraid of losing a loved one. He was still on guard. It was a very emotional constellation for all involved, which, according to his own words, he processed for a long time. His feedback was two sentences. "So I tried to think about everything until I fell asleep on the way home, in the car. Without medicine".

Danny came to several other workshops and also had one-on-one sessions with me. He is still trying to figure out „magic“ of constellations.